Monday, January 21, 2019

Your vibe attracts your tribe



Happy New Year! I know I'm a bit late but It's 2019 and the saying "Your vibe attracts your tribe"is what I'm screaming all year long. My personal tribe is made up of awesome people who excel in their personal and professional lives, even my metamours all are awesome people who're doing great things in life as well.

Your vibe attracts your tribe has several meanings to me.  My vibe is my personal attitude as well as  the direction my life is going.  I know that life can hand you lemons and everything isn't always going to be positive but generally we all(my partners/metamours) have a positive attitude about life and how things are going in our very separate lives.

I think it helps to remember this when seeking out new connections as well. It's helped me when I was monogamous and it has helped me find and seek other partnerships over the years. I prefer to be in relationships with people who have similar goals in life.  It's not to say that everyone you meet or decided to possibly add to your life shouldn't have different ideas and different goals.

I think that having a pretty positive outlook on life in general helps to attract people overall.  You may of course attract people that have a different mindset and goals than you overall and that's fine too.  My growth has made me realize that it's okay to see the world differently. It's okay to place values on different things than me.  We're all "rowing" towards something, not against the current that we call LIFE.